There are many reasons why women get married. There are those that are more common while others are more controversial.
I got married because I strongly believe I found my true love and I want my wife to be my life-long partner. It is a commitment made to her to take care of her forever.
I know some friends who got married because it is the right time. (Only the brides can tell us when is the right time.)
In Korea, I know that women get married because they have to. Of course, there are some who found true love. On the other hand, there are some women who are match-made when they reached a certain age. Their parents will arrange their daughters to meet sons of their friends and the story starts from there.
So this is from the social point of view. Women get married because they have reached that stage in life which tells them they have to get married so that they can have a family really soon.
It is the social norm for them to do so because everyone else in their society is doing the same.
From the intra-personal point of view, women get married for many reasons. Some women get married because of sense of security. They want someone to be there to protect them.
Others got married because of fear of loneliness. They are afraid of growing old without someone to spend time with them.
I know there are some women who got married to men who are like their own fathers. It means their husbands resemble their fathers in terms of character, mannerism and even speech. This could be quite complex to explain. These ladies could have very good relationship with their dads and they made a subconscious decision since young that they wanted to marry their fathers.
Maybe I can term this as a sense of familiarity.
Do you know there are fake marriages?
They got married so that they can apply for the country citizenship. There are some immigrants who particularly look for local men so that they can stay in that country permanently.
Some divorced soon after marriage so that they can get half of the husbands assets.
There are some men who go to foreign lands seeking foreign brides. Marriage ceremony was done in a haste so that the girls can be flown straight to the groom s country.
In the bride s country, I have read from newspapers that these young ladies signed up with local match-making agencies in search of a promise land. They have heard of great stories that their peers are doing really well after they got married to a foreigner.
In fact they have no idea what is in it for them. The lucky ones get the caring husbands. The unfortunate ones get abusive men who made them do lots of hard work and treat them like slaves.
So a better lifestyle and a greater sense of hope can motivate women to get married.
For the last reason which is highly discouraged is the reason for the men s assets. Look around the celebrity world, how many young successful ladies are married to very rich old men.
There are also some young women who choose to marry senior male citizens in their seventies or even eighties so that they can swallow up their life-savings and other inheritance.
So you can see there are many reasons women get themselves committed to saying their wedding vows.
By: Jhong Ren
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Wednesday, 5 September 2007
Memories in Satin or Silicon? Finding the Right Wedding Guest Book
by Andrew Morris
Do you think you have remembered to order everything for your upcoming wedding? Even so, you may still need to buy one last important item. Wedding guest books are essentially big scrapbooks that are signed by the newlyweds' relatives, friends and acquaintances attending the ceremony. Well, yes, you could run down to the local store and buy any blank book in a pinch. But the best wedding guest books are elegant and memorable, and is the one item that everyone in attendance is sure to see.
The good news is that today's wedding guest books are more versatile than ever, and brides (or interested grooms) no longer have to select a traditional design. They come in different styles, sizes, and designs, and some are covered in classy fabrics like satin and lace and finished with ribbons and gold leaf. Many models include a matching pen set to complete the effect, even if nothing else at your wedding matches!
A recent survey of current options found floral designs still popular. The most sophisticated models included other tasteful items like a guest book pillow. And there are growing options for guest books that include a garter and tiara. Almost all of these items can be personalized with the names of the bride and groom (or dear Aunt Tilda who paid for the cake).
If you are non-traditional and high-tech, there is even another option. Yes, I am talking about the digital wedding guest book, which may have been a gift from your tech-savvy cousin. Digital photo wedding guest books are the newest way to give a memento to the bride and groom or just the bride at a bridal shower. The advantage of the digital version of this classic keepsake is that it allows you to share your experience with friends and family on-line by uploading the contents of the memory card. There is no need to worry about losing or damaging the original, and many models allow you to display your wedding highlights as a slide show in a digital photo frame. Since it is much harder to sign a digital photo, so you will need to get a little creative to personalize the entries.
In conclusion, the wedding guest book is an important memento of your special day. It is a treasured keepsake which will remind you of the friends and family who have taken part in your marriage. Whether you choose to go classy or informal, or even opt for the digital variety, this is one item from your wedding you will treasure. And the one gift you can give yourselves that is sure to never be returned!
About the Author
Andrew Morris teaches you how to save 50% or more on your wedding and shows you how you can plan it in less time.
Do you think you have remembered to order everything for your upcoming wedding? Even so, you may still need to buy one last important item. Wedding guest books are essentially big scrapbooks that are signed by the newlyweds' relatives, friends and acquaintances attending the ceremony. Well, yes, you could run down to the local store and buy any blank book in a pinch. But the best wedding guest books are elegant and memorable, and is the one item that everyone in attendance is sure to see.
The good news is that today's wedding guest books are more versatile than ever, and brides (or interested grooms) no longer have to select a traditional design. They come in different styles, sizes, and designs, and some are covered in classy fabrics like satin and lace and finished with ribbons and gold leaf. Many models include a matching pen set to complete the effect, even if nothing else at your wedding matches!
A recent survey of current options found floral designs still popular. The most sophisticated models included other tasteful items like a guest book pillow. And there are growing options for guest books that include a garter and tiara. Almost all of these items can be personalized with the names of the bride and groom (or dear Aunt Tilda who paid for the cake).
If you are non-traditional and high-tech, there is even another option. Yes, I am talking about the digital wedding guest book, which may have been a gift from your tech-savvy cousin. Digital photo wedding guest books are the newest way to give a memento to the bride and groom or just the bride at a bridal shower. The advantage of the digital version of this classic keepsake is that it allows you to share your experience with friends and family on-line by uploading the contents of the memory card. There is no need to worry about losing or damaging the original, and many models allow you to display your wedding highlights as a slide show in a digital photo frame. Since it is much harder to sign a digital photo, so you will need to get a little creative to personalize the entries.
In conclusion, the wedding guest book is an important memento of your special day. It is a treasured keepsake which will remind you of the friends and family who have taken part in your marriage. Whether you choose to go classy or informal, or even opt for the digital variety, this is one item from your wedding you will treasure. And the one gift you can give yourselves that is sure to never be returned!
About the Author
Andrew Morris teaches you how to save 50% or more on your wedding and shows you how you can plan it in less time.
How To Treat Your Guests To Chocolate Wedding Favors
What guest wouldn't love to be treated to a chocolate wedding favor?
Chocolate comes in different colors from dark to white chocolate, is loved by everyone and can be an excellent idea for a wedding favor. But you may choose to save the additional cost of purchasing wedding favors by making your own and you can even enlist help from the bridal party.
Here is a surefire way to ensure your guests leave with chocolaty fingers without putting a dent in your budget.
Make your own chocolate wedding favors:
1.Buy a netting/tulle roll 6x25 yard rolls in either white or ivory netting. Cut it into 6x6 squares - each roll makes approximately 150 favors. This will cost you under $10.00 and can be purchased at any wedding store or online. You can even try Ebay by typing in Tulle Roll.
2.Buy wedding ribbons to match the wedding colors - type wedding ribbons into Ebay or purchase sheer organza ribbon at your local wedding store. This will cost you under $10.00.
3.Purchase chocolates at your local store the kind is up to your tastes.
Now you just need a pair of scissors and you can start making the wedding favors. Just cut a 6x6 square of tulle roll add chocolates and tie with organza ribbons. You can get the job done much faster if you invite your wedding party over and do it as a group.
Buying chocolate wedding favors
You may not feel like spending the extra hours to make your wedding favors. In that case you can purchase prepackaged and even personalized wedding favors online or at your local wedding supply store.
Chocolate comes in different colors from dark to white chocolate, is loved by everyone and can be an excellent idea for a wedding favor. But you may choose to save the additional cost of purchasing wedding favors by making your own and you can even enlist help from the bridal party.
Here is a surefire way to ensure your guests leave with chocolaty fingers without putting a dent in your budget.
Make your own chocolate wedding favors:
1.Buy a netting/tulle roll 6x25 yard rolls in either white or ivory netting. Cut it into 6x6 squares - each roll makes approximately 150 favors. This will cost you under $10.00 and can be purchased at any wedding store or online. You can even try Ebay by typing in Tulle Roll.
2.Buy wedding ribbons to match the wedding colors - type wedding ribbons into Ebay or purchase sheer organza ribbon at your local wedding store. This will cost you under $10.00.
3.Purchase chocolates at your local store the kind is up to your tastes.
Now you just need a pair of scissors and you can start making the wedding favors. Just cut a 6x6 square of tulle roll add chocolates and tie with organza ribbons. You can get the job done much faster if you invite your wedding party over and do it as a group.
Buying chocolate wedding favors
You may not feel like spending the extra hours to make your wedding favors. In that case you can purchase prepackaged and even personalized wedding favors online or at your local wedding supply store.
Wedding Reception Music Selection Tips
First Dance Song -
The couple s first dance song is one of the most emotional moments for the bride and groom at the reception. The words of the song should have a special meaning to the wedding couple. Generally, the first dance song is a slow tempo ballad, which makes it easy to dance to and sets a romantic mood. Practice dancing to your wedding song in advance to help remove some of the nervousness of the moment.
Father Daughter and Mother Son Dance -
The parent dances are another emotional and memorable special segment of the wedding reception. Again, the song words are a top consideration in selecting these special dance songs. The lyrics to the song should be meaningful to the relationship between the parents and children. Selecting just the right song here will insure there won't be a dry eye in the house!
Cake Cutting Ceremony -
Usually one of the lighter, more amusing moments of the reception, the cake cutting music can be more up-tempo and on the fun side. The traditional Farmer in the Dell "The Bride Cuts The Cake..." is indicative of the fun atmosphere for the cake cutting ceremony.
Dance Party Songs -
Let's Dance! Here is where the bride, groom and all the wedding guests get to let their hair down and have some fun! Be sure to select songs from all different decades to reflect the various age groups in attendance at the wedding. 70's funk and disco and 80's dance and pop songs are a great source of fun and danceable music for the wedding reception. The 40's and 50's were a terrific source of slow dance ballads and swing numbers.
Summary -
The song selections for the reception should reflect the tastes of the bride and groom. However, be sure to keep in mind the general musical styles that will insure a memorable experience for all your wedding guests.
The couple s first dance song is one of the most emotional moments for the bride and groom at the reception. The words of the song should have a special meaning to the wedding couple. Generally, the first dance song is a slow tempo ballad, which makes it easy to dance to and sets a romantic mood. Practice dancing to your wedding song in advance to help remove some of the nervousness of the moment.
Father Daughter and Mother Son Dance -
The parent dances are another emotional and memorable special segment of the wedding reception. Again, the song words are a top consideration in selecting these special dance songs. The lyrics to the song should be meaningful to the relationship between the parents and children. Selecting just the right song here will insure there won't be a dry eye in the house!
Cake Cutting Ceremony -
Usually one of the lighter, more amusing moments of the reception, the cake cutting music can be more up-tempo and on the fun side. The traditional Farmer in the Dell "The Bride Cuts The Cake..." is indicative of the fun atmosphere for the cake cutting ceremony.
Dance Party Songs -
Let's Dance! Here is where the bride, groom and all the wedding guests get to let their hair down and have some fun! Be sure to select songs from all different decades to reflect the various age groups in attendance at the wedding. 70's funk and disco and 80's dance and pop songs are a great source of fun and danceable music for the wedding reception. The 40's and 50's were a terrific source of slow dance ballads and swing numbers.
Summary -
The song selections for the reception should reflect the tastes of the bride and groom. However, be sure to keep in mind the general musical styles that will insure a memorable experience for all your wedding guests.
Wedding Shower Favors - Helping You Celebrate That Last Night of Freedom!
Wedding shower favors should be chosen carefully they represent the bride s last chance to have some fun! Unlike wedding day favors, which may have to embrace a whole range of guests, from grandparents to your sister s kids, wedding shower favors are just for the girls! And after a long period of dedicated planning and proffering support, don t your shower guests deserve all the fun of frivolous wedding shower favors?
And let s not forget the bride wedding shower party favors should reflect her last foray into single female life! Wedding shower favors should be chosen to reflect the loves of the bride after all, with all the hard work her new husband is going to require, who knows when she ll get the relive the fun represented by her wedding shower favors!
So who chooses the wedding shower party favors? Just like the planning of the shower itself, there are no hard and fast rules. Just as wedding traditions are adapting to fit the wide range of couples getting married today, wedding shower favors are available to suit the interests of any bride.
Regardless of who is planning the occasion, the wedding shower party favors should embody the theme of the shower itself, and this will depend on the personality of the bride. A good bridesmaid will know exactly what her bride needs! Whether she is a serious type, or a dedicated partygoer, there are wedding shower favors available to suit every type of shower.
Whether you are bride or bridesmaid, remember that the shower is hopefully a one off occasion so use your wedding shower favors to make it as memorable as possible! These are also the items that will remind your closest girlfriends of celebrating their last big night of singledom with you, so consider choosing wedding shower favors that can double up as keepsakes. Hopefully, your wedding shower favors will help you have a night to remember!
Wedding shower favors work well when they follow your shower theme.
And let s not forget the bride wedding shower party favors should reflect her last foray into single female life! Wedding shower favors should be chosen to reflect the loves of the bride after all, with all the hard work her new husband is going to require, who knows when she ll get the relive the fun represented by her wedding shower favors!
So who chooses the wedding shower party favors? Just like the planning of the shower itself, there are no hard and fast rules. Just as wedding traditions are adapting to fit the wide range of couples getting married today, wedding shower favors are available to suit the interests of any bride.
Regardless of who is planning the occasion, the wedding shower party favors should embody the theme of the shower itself, and this will depend on the personality of the bride. A good bridesmaid will know exactly what her bride needs! Whether she is a serious type, or a dedicated partygoer, there are wedding shower favors available to suit every type of shower.
Whether you are bride or bridesmaid, remember that the shower is hopefully a one off occasion so use your wedding shower favors to make it as memorable as possible! These are also the items that will remind your closest girlfriends of celebrating their last big night of singledom with you, so consider choosing wedding shower favors that can double up as keepsakes. Hopefully, your wedding shower favors will help you have a night to remember!
Wedding shower favors work well when they follow your shower theme.
Wedding Gifts - Picking Out The Perfect Gift
I have always believed in the importance of getting good gifts for people. After all, what is the point of a gift-giving holiday if you just go through the motions? Giving gifts, if you ask me, is an almost sacred obligation. It is a thing that brings people together, after all. Communities are strengthened, ties are forged, and everyone leaves feeling a little bit happier - or so the theory goes.
This is why I have been having so much trouble picking out wedding presents recently. I'm getting to the age where my friends are getting married in droves, and yet I can't find the perfect wedding present for anyone. Of course, there is an easy solution. Everyone signs up with a wedding registry after all, so the most obvious thing is to buy something that is on that list. The problem is that wedding registries seem so insincere. There is nothing personal, for example, about getting someone silverware or a teapot that they already asked for. If you ask me, a wedding present should have a more personal touch.
The problem is that it is difficult to pick out the perfect gift for a couple. If you are looking for a gift for a friend, it is usually pretty easy. You'll know enough about that friend and his or her likes and dislikes to pick something good out. With a wedding present, however, it isn't at all the same. Usually, you know one person much better than the other. In addition, most couples don't have the same tastes. What might be a good bride presents isn't necessarily a good present for the groom. That is why so many people take the easy way out and go through the registry to pick out their wedding reception present. Otherwise, the choices are very difficult.
Of course, you can always get them something fancy and beautiful that you know they need. An engraved wedding present is often a good idea. For example, you can get them a fancy calligraphy set or stationary set, a handmade photo frame, or even a wedding photograph album. All of these gifts, however, are somewhat risky. It is difficult to know if someone else has already gotten them the same thing or not. When that happens, it can be quite embarrassing for everyone involved. That is why I have been having so much trouble with it. Picking out the perfect gift is hard!
By: Ellen Gentry
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This is why I have been having so much trouble picking out wedding presents recently. I'm getting to the age where my friends are getting married in droves, and yet I can't find the perfect wedding present for anyone. Of course, there is an easy solution. Everyone signs up with a wedding registry after all, so the most obvious thing is to buy something that is on that list. The problem is that wedding registries seem so insincere. There is nothing personal, for example, about getting someone silverware or a teapot that they already asked for. If you ask me, a wedding present should have a more personal touch.
The problem is that it is difficult to pick out the perfect gift for a couple. If you are looking for a gift for a friend, it is usually pretty easy. You'll know enough about that friend and his or her likes and dislikes to pick something good out. With a wedding present, however, it isn't at all the same. Usually, you know one person much better than the other. In addition, most couples don't have the same tastes. What might be a good bride presents isn't necessarily a good present for the groom. That is why so many people take the easy way out and go through the registry to pick out their wedding reception present. Otherwise, the choices are very difficult.
Of course, you can always get them something fancy and beautiful that you know they need. An engraved wedding present is often a good idea. For example, you can get them a fancy calligraphy set or stationary set, a handmade photo frame, or even a wedding photograph album. All of these gifts, however, are somewhat risky. It is difficult to know if someone else has already gotten them the same thing or not. When that happens, it can be quite embarrassing for everyone involved. That is why I have been having so much trouble with it. Picking out the perfect gift is hard!
By: Ellen Gentry
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Ellen Gentry writes articles about Hawaii wedding packages where you can find information about beach weddings in Maui and Maui beachfront vacation rentals perfect for your honeymoon.
Personalized Wedding Cake Toppers
As a replacement for of the usual ceramic or human-like figurines, you could opt for a cake topper you can personalize. Personalized wedding cake toppers are beautiful and unique cake toppers which are meant to be used in place of traditional toppers. You will employ them in addition to the traditional bride-and-groom cake topper. It often encompasses a smooth polished surface with ample room to engrave something as simple as the names and date or sentiments as interesting as you can imagine. This must really be among the gifts bride and groom are sure to cherish forever.
The Personalized Rose Wedding Cake Topper, built on a stable base is a good option. It is very unique due to its low "center of gravity" and will not fall over if unintentionally smacked. The rose bud is to be found at its widest point and contains a stem that runs down to the front edge of the base. A thorn and a leaf could also be seen and the twisted heart is mounted at the rear of the base. You might easily engraved names according to your wish as the names are attached securely to the heart. In this structure, the brides name is frequently mount over the grooms name. All along, it will further have a red heart in a spot that looks natural for it to be.
If you present the bride and groom with a stunning personalized wedding cake toppers then they ll cherish it as a keepsake. You could make a merry with the heart-shaped topper which could be personalized in three different ways. At initials with interlocking hearts or with a monogram, you could put this personalized wedding cake toppers at use. Such personalized wedding cake topper makes a thoughtful engagement gift. Entwined hearts with names and date as a personalized wedding cake topper could be a classic decoration for your cake and wedding reception. It is an enduring memento and aide memoire of your love and dedication to each other. Upon purchase, you will get a chance to personalize it according to the shape that you desire.
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Personalized wedding cake toppers - Stunning monogram and unique wedding cake toppers for all wedding and anniversary occasions.
The Personalized Rose Wedding Cake Topper, built on a stable base is a good option. It is very unique due to its low "center of gravity" and will not fall over if unintentionally smacked. The rose bud is to be found at its widest point and contains a stem that runs down to the front edge of the base. A thorn and a leaf could also be seen and the twisted heart is mounted at the rear of the base. You might easily engraved names according to your wish as the names are attached securely to the heart. In this structure, the brides name is frequently mount over the grooms name. All along, it will further have a red heart in a spot that looks natural for it to be.
If you present the bride and groom with a stunning personalized wedding cake toppers then they ll cherish it as a keepsake. You could make a merry with the heart-shaped topper which could be personalized in three different ways. At initials with interlocking hearts or with a monogram, you could put this personalized wedding cake toppers at use. Such personalized wedding cake topper makes a thoughtful engagement gift. Entwined hearts with names and date as a personalized wedding cake topper could be a classic decoration for your cake and wedding reception. It is an enduring memento and aide memoire of your love and dedication to each other. Upon purchase, you will get a chance to personalize it according to the shape that you desire.
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Personalized wedding cake toppers - Stunning monogram and unique wedding cake toppers for all wedding and anniversary occasions.
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